Just read an entry on Sari Solden's blog about what to look for when searching for a marriage counselor if one or more of you has ADHD. Go to this link to read her suggestions.
There are two new resources that I want to make you aware of. One is a new book by Nancy Ratey that provides a really interesting and useful approach to finally changing the ADHD behaviors that have seem so entrenched. The other is an upcoming conference about ADHD, sponsored by ADDA.