I had the luxury of knowing my future wife had ADHD before we married.  It has been a struggle some times but well worth the effort.  I could not have been prouder than the day she finished her Ph.D.  I sure wish that a forum like this had been available sooner.  Sometimes the need to share with those who have to deal with similar issues becomes overwhelming and those that don't have to deal with the day to day issues are clueless. 

Roland