I am new here.  My name is Jason.  I am married to a wonderful Woman who has had ADHD for a long time.  She just recently in the past 5 years was diagnosed and is on medicines.  Her two sons also have Add w/ODD and Anxiety and ADHD w anxiety, attention and high impulsivity.

I love my family dearly.  But how to deal with the frustrations.  Some days its very over whelming.  Having to repeat the same thing over and over.  Much less the same things annoy me.  Its like my wife does not listen when I tell her. Then we don't have her kids all the time.  But when we do its amplified by 3 times.  Its almost like they are reacting to one another. 

HELP