Not wrong, just different.

The intro to this hypnosis download is this: "In order to find a man you are attracted to but who is also good for you and knows how to support you, you need to really think about what is important to you then keep your head when you start dating so that you can clearly see what is in front of you. The common mistakes when dating Mr Wrong are Making excuses for him and Blaming yourself.  To avoid this you need to give him responsibility for his own behavior and make him accountable for his own behavior. So if he flirts outrageously with your best friend you need to really know it's his behavior not a reflection of you.  Falling for the wrong guy - what's important to you? So if reliability and trust are important to you then does his behavior generally meet your criteria? If the answer is no then you need to really look at what's going on and keep a part of yourself detached. True love takes time to develop - infatuation and desperation blind you."  

I would say this goes both ways.  You don't want to be married a lifetime to someone whose expectations you do not have the energy or inclination to meet.  If you want to enjoy your ease and are not someone who feels a need to work too hard and are willing to do with less....know that about yourself and don't expect yourself to change just because you are hooked up with a motivated go-getter. Chances are you will be encouraged to work more than you care to and move faster and have un-wanted responsibilities which you may interpret as her being a nagging busybody.

Downloadable Stop Choosing Mr Wrong  at www.hypnosisdownloads.com

There is also a hypnosis download called Manage ADHD.  

I have used a few hypnosis downloads for sleeping, happiness and peace.