I recently saw Scott Kelly speak about his experiences growing up.  He struggled in much the way many with ADHD struggle (he says he most likely has ADHD) – difficulty in school, trouble paying attention.  Things didn’t come easily to him.  He failed some of the first navy tests that he needed to pass in order to become a pilot.  Some in authority suggested he try something else.  But he had a passion for flying, and kept at it.

He has other qualities often associated with ADHD, too – he’s a dreamer.  He’s intrepid and personable.  He perseveres on that which genuinely interests him.

One of the most important parts of succeeding with ADHD is engaging with what you have a passion for and persevering.  It provides direction, and the reward that fires up the ADHD brain.

You can find great resources for couples impacted by ADHD at adhdmarriage.com, including free: Online treatment overview; Downloadable chapters of my books; A community forum with other couples facing similar issues; A large number of blog posts on various topics; Referrals. Adult ADHD can have a huge impact on your relationship. ADHDmarriage.com can literally change your life!  

Resources

Is your relationship in trouble? Consider my highly acclaimed couples' course: ADHD Effect In-Depth Couples' Seminar - This 8-session phone seminar has helped many couples thrive in healthier, happier relationships.

Support Tele-groups - Be part of a community exploring similar issues; learn from each other's successes and struggles; and find new, more effective ways to be your best self in your relationship: Non ADHD Partner Support Tele-group.

How to Optimize Treatment for Adult ADHD - go to the home page for a free download about the best ways to manage ADHD.

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