One of the great things about ADHD is having an innate ability to live in the moment.  But Goethe’s quote has a feel of ‘savoring the moment’ to it that I think can get lost in the ‘now and not now’ time zones of ADHD.  Those with ADHD are ‘in the moment’ because their brains are so attuned to instant rewards of responding to what’s immediately around them.  That’s not the same thing as slowing down and savoring.

So the question becomes – how do you learn to savor the moment more?  Mindfulness is the answer to that question.  With mindfulness training, you can slow yourself down a bit, and take a pause – long enough to up your enjoyment of what you are doing.  Mindfulness is also helpful for emotional regulation, better sleep, and more.

You can find great resources for couples impacted by ADHD at adhdmarriage.com, including free: Online treatment overview; Downloadable chapters of my books; A community forum with other couples facing similar issues; A large number of blog posts on various topics; Referrals. Adult ADHD can have a huge impact on your relationship. ADHDmarriage.com can literally change your life!  

Resources

Is your relationship in trouble? Consider my highly acclaimed couples' course: ADHD Effect In-Depth Couples' Seminar - This 8-session phone seminar has helped many couples thrive in healthier, happier relationships. The next LIVE session begins in October 2019.

Support Tele-groups - Be part of a community exploring similar issues; learn from each other's successes and struggles; and find new, more effective ways to be your best self in your relationship: Non ADHD Partner Support Tele-group.

How to Optimize Treatment for Adult ADHD - go to the home page for a free download about the best ways to manage ADHD.

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