I was on the phone recently with a couple talking about how they interact with each other.  Their basic conclusion was ‘we could certainly be nicer to each other.’  As we continued talking, it was clear that both also knew HOW to communicate in a more respectful, nicer way.  Yet they were having trouble making that choice when talking with each other.

You can imagine the result.

Sometimes we ‘just don’t feel like’ being kind to our partner…but as Confucius suggests, when we stop making that effort we impact our own self and our own lives as much as our partner’s.

So, when deciding how to respond to your partner, always ask yourself “How could I be kind?”  It will improve your life.

Tele-coaching groups for ADHD and non-ADHD adults start again in April - Learn more here. 

You can find great resources for couples impacted by ADHD at adhdmarriage.com, including free:

• -   Online treatment overview;

  -   Downloadable chapters of my books;

  -   A community forum with other couples facing similar issues;

    -   A large number of blog posts on various topics;

    -   Referrals.

Is your relationship in trouble? Consider my highly acclaimed couples' course: ADHD Effect In-Depth Couples' Seminar - This 8-session phone seminar has helped many couples thrive in healthier, happier relationships. Next live session begins in October 2018.

Is your relationship in pretty good shape but you'd love to feel closer? Consider my self-study seminar Recovering Intimacy in Your Relationship.

Adult ADHD can have a huge impact on your relationship. ADHDmarriage.com can literally change your life!  Question? Contact Melissa.

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