I've been married for 10 years and it hasn't been an easy 10 years.  Many things have taken place.  I left him for 3 months this year and finally moved home but still not convinced I want to stay married to him.  I have read some of your book that just came out, the 6 signs.  But after reading most of it it made me agree.  He was the one who should read it first because he agreed he would read it.  I have done my research but if he doesn't believe what I say it won't do us any good.  I'm so tired and don't know if it is worth my time and frustrations to work this out.  I have a temper anyway and trying to keep that to a minimum is crazy hard!  He also makes it difficult on me when I do want to end the relationship.  I know he loves me but I'm tired of being alone.  I'd like to do the things I like to do  but I have to go alone or with friends.  I want to do things with my spouse but if he does go it ends up in a fight or its not much fun and I wish he didn't go with me.  I'm a very positive and upbeat person and if I wasn't I would be so depressed right now and I don't want to get to that position in life.  What do I do to get him to take me serious when I want him to learn more of why he does the things he does and that there is help if he does have ADHD.  Which I'm almost 99% sure he does.  I have so many examples and hurt feelings I could go on and on about and wish I could find it deep down to leave him and go through the tough times of a year or so and then not have to deal with this the rest of my life.