Books on co-dependence

• The classic, and best, book about co-dependence is Codependent No More.  This is relevant for couples struggling with parent/child dynamics. 
• The chapter on Setting Boundaries and Finding Your Own Voices in The ADHD Effect on Marriage is also very helpful for addressing parent/child issues.

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• ADHD Effect couples tele-seminar, which spends a good deal of time on eliminating  parent/child dynamics
• Blog post:  What's the Difference Between Reminding and Nagging?
• Blog post: Pursuit-Retreat Patterns Will Destroy Your Marriage
• Blog post: How Do We Tell 'Normal' Anger from 'ADHD Anger'?
• This blog post on the idea of moving from 'codependency' to 'prodependency' - supporting each others' strengths and weaknesses.