Hi there,

My boyfriend of 9 months now is ADHD. At first, the relationship was wonderful and he was charming and respected me.

It seems that now he blows up at every little thing I have to say or if I do something he doesn't like, instead of just talking

to me, he spouts off mean horrible things and gets me crying. I know I'm not perfect and I'm an emotional person anyway

, but I feel like he plays on my insecurites somehow by making me turn into this crying little girl. Then of course after he calms 

down it's " I love you baby". I know I have a lot of personal growth to accomplish, but how do I get him to get help of his own

and take his medicine everyday? I really love him and I know he loves me, he just doesn't think he has any issues at all.

and on top of it we are having a baby. I would appreciate any feedback. Thank you.