Submitted by julie jay on 02/05/2016.
It just hit me like a ton of bricks the other day that my hubs really responds to touch...and the lack of as rejection (which we know is an issue with ADHD'ers).
Does anyone have any insight, knowledge or experience with the same or similar? I noticed when I do something as little as just touch him arm when I ask him something, and it gets done....it's almost like a miracle.
Thanks.
julie jay
It's not an adhd issue....
Submitted by c ur self on
Based on my life and the men I've known well enough to have this kind of conversation....Men don't discuss this much unless there is a lot of trust....
Normal Healthy males or physical creatures that crave touch...In our minds you show us how much you love us by the amount intimacy and closeness (touch) you share with us. Do you approach us and are you approachable?...Of course we feel loved by Acts of service, kind words, (affirmation) gifts etc...also...But in my life and most men I've known and heard talk about this physical touch would at a 75 or 80% level above other ways...
We dream about it....Most thankful responsibly men will work themselves to death for a spouse who honor's him and tends to his needs in this way.
C