I'm not diagnosed but I'm 99% sure I'm ADD. Getting married and having kids(especially now that they are older) has only made my symptoms more apparent. My husband was diagnosed with ADHD in 2007. He has been taking Adderall ever since. I've blamed so many of our family problems on my spouse and my kids(thinking my son has ADHD..) trying to fix everyone. Anyway.. I'm constantly riddled with anxiety, my kids don't listen to me or my husband.. He's more authoritarian and I'm more permissive... Neither one of us are consistent with parenting.. I'm always blaming him and he's always blaming me.. Anyway you get the picture. I've begun taking Synaptol(homeopathic) and pharmaceutical grade omega 3, and B vitamins, Vit D, a few essential oils and I'm noticing a huge difference in the way I talk to my kids and my family. I am actually able to focus on what they are saying, allow myself to think before I speak, and am remembering stuff better! I also have Hashimoto's thyroiditis(which causes thyroid to become hyper and hypo back and forth), and hubby also has type  1 diabetes. Man aren't we a pair! I'm so glad to have figured out my own issues because now it's improving the dynamic of our whole household. My question is though, should I seek a formal diagnosis? The natural remedies are doing the trick so far.. I'm not opposed to drugs but would like to exhaust all other options first. Oh and to be clear, I am treating my hashis successfully so I don't think that is the cause of my add symptoms