I'm accompanying my ADHD partner today for work. Lots of stops for each job and lots of conversations on the phone. 

He speaks to men in a business manner, friendly, more than I'd be, but still on the side of business.

The ladies though, he fully flirts and tells them what he did last night when he got home, told them he'd been on holiday, using words like sweetheart and darling and making connections all over the place.

We have spoken about this before. It's very subtle, but his voice actually changes, deeper, more sexual.

im very very sad.