Hello,
I was wondering how common it is for ADHDrs to have extremely toxic families. My spouse has a mother who is bipolar. Who has periodic suicidal flip-outs, gossips extensively, and airs dirty laundry like it's her full time job. She is untreated and undiagnosed, but has every symptom. She has an ego so massive, constantly victimizes herself and wouldn't be caught dead apologizing.
The father was abusive and neglectful, and addicted to meth. I mean, how toxic can it get?
At times, I truly pity the circumstances that my spouse grew up in. But I also find toxic patterns in him too, where he has learned that being suicidal is the only way to get any affection or care from his family. I find it quite unsettling actually, and am afraid of his mother. Overbearing, anxious, critical, and very dependent on others for her identity. It's creepy, actually.
Anyone else seen anything like this?
My boyfriend's family is a
Submitted by LeeAnne10 on
My boyfriend's family is a very patriarchal and sexist family, in the way that a woman being easy going and setting zero boundaries is part of their breezy hippie thing. Two of the men have had affairs which is common family knowledge, one being my boyfriend's father and a family friend who his parents are still friends with??? They chalk it up to Summer of Love kind of stuff but I find it toxic. I come from a very abusive household and it took me decades to set boundaries. With my boyfriend's family, they think I'm difficult, etc. etc. because I hold him accountable. They also badmouth all of the women who married into the family. So, it is a very unhealthy family though my boyfriend doesn't see it that way at all.
His father also had anger management issues when he was a kind and the parents would hit the kids, though I know that used to be a regular way of disciplining kids for far too many households. No hard drug use that I know of but I imagine that the misogny is like a drug?
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Can't speak for others but my
Submitted by KimmieLynn on
Can't speak for others but my Add husbands family is extremely toxic with disorders ranging from narcism to bpd.