Submitted by PoisonIvy on 05/27/2016.
My divorce was finalized this morning. I still like my former husband. But I have no regrets about no longer being married to him. I'll always be an anxious person but now I won't have the concealed dangers resulting from his and his family's dishonesty and denial weighing me down.
I won't say
Submitted by Zapp10 on
Congratulations......I am sure there is relief tinged with ...?......I have followed your posts and find SO many similarities.
I wish you well.. as I do your ex......he is quite like my H......who just doesn't SEE how the ADD affects them and their relationships.
Let us know how things go forward for you!!! :-)
Thank you. Relief tinged
Submitted by PoisonIvy on
Thank you. Relief tinged with sadness and resentment; sadness, because I wouldn't be so happy to be done with the marriage if it had been a decent marriage; resentment, because my ex-h made the divorce more difficult than necessary, and I felt much anxiety as a result. He insinuated that I was not being fair with the property division proposal, and I sweetened the deal in his favor. And he told me an hour after the divorce hearing ended about assets he had not disclosed. Sigh.
I hope
Submitted by Zapp10 on
you can move beautifully forward from the "mayhem" of your marriage to a fulfilling life guided by the discoveries of a more empowered/knowledgeable YOU.!! Though the years ahead may not be as many as those given to marriage........just ONE year of AWESOME beats it ALL.!