I wanted to thank for the support and help I got from this forum when I was dealing with my ADHD husband.  Our divorce has been finalized and I am done with my short marriage. He moved out of town and I will never see him again. I might encounter different types of despair and pain in my life, but hopefully it will not be as devastating as it has been during my marriage.

It is so heartbreaking to see many spouses like myself on this forum totally vulnerable and emotionally drained in their marriages. Of course all marriages have ups and downs, but I strongly believe marriages should have more ups than downs in order for one to maintain hopeful perspectives on life. I saw a dead end in my marriage and I had to escape from it before completely burning myself out. My thoughts go out to you all on this forum... Stay strong.