Submitted by ccontreras8185 on 06/20/2010.
i am not sure how i'm suppose to feel. I always feel lonely and I have talked to my husband about it way too many times. I feel that NOTHING has changed. I have tried my best to not get angry with him. i just this second finished talking to him about it again. He left anyway. Is it normal for us to talk about the same thing over and over and nothing to get resolved. He is always doing something and never has time for me. Does anyone have any ideas on how i can deal with this? I would greately appreciate it.
nothing changes
Submitted by callmesusan on
Yep, I talked, and cried, to him more times than I can believe and nothing would change in spite of my husband caring about me. I was nearly done with the marriage because I was so lonely and alone. We finally entered couples counseling (again...), which, incidentally, was where the ADD was detected. After a couple of months or so, I think my husband finally got my pain and what he can do to help. We are now on a reconnection mission. Have you tried counseling? Even if you have, maybe you can try again if you love each other still.