Phone addiction

My un-medicated ADHD wife is addicted to her phone. Sometimes I feel like she has a better relationship with her phone than me. We have been together almost 10 years. Ever since the birth of our son a few years ago, I feel very left behind by her. I know I sound like a baby! I miss my wife. We have carved out time for date nights on Saturday nights. There is still a feeling of disconnect sometimes. I just feel better typing this out.