Firstly, I don't know if this thread has been posted already. If so, I do apologize for a repeat.
Marrying and dwelling with someone w/ ADHD is an interesting, not to mention exhausting, experience. It's like there isn't enough caffeine in the world one could consume in order to keep up w/ them, right? Well, my wife (of nearly 2 years) has taught me this lesson. Her ADHD gives her an unbelievable energy level, both mentally and physically. If she isn't running around 8 hours non-stop w/ the animals at her school/job, she's completing multiple hard-level Sudokus in less than 5 minute each. I am really learning how to accept her energetic behavior and quirks, but something has really begun to surface and nudge me. Her sexual endurance has surpassed mine, I almost cannot keep up with her and trying to really leaves me tired at times. Hell, I'm not even lieing when I say it's embarrassing for me admit it from the start. And it's not that she's domineering, but she just wants sex way more than normal (considering both of our busy schedules). I haven't directly TOLD her about it (because I really don't know how w/o sounding like a little punk ass bitch). I'm 26 and I can stand and deliver just fine, just not for every waking moment.
I am not one to push pills to solve a problem, but she sometimes say she should take some meds to be "normal". I have always told her she's is normal, just hyper. Should start I agreeing w/ her and let her take one or two and see her results? Or should I be the one taking some pills (viagra)?
how about toys?
Submitted by Tasla on
Well, you both seem young and in good health (from your post). If the biggest problem is differing sex drives, why not try out some toys so that she can get her satisfaction without you being exhausted all the time?
Also, is she ok with you saying you're too tired and just want to hold her close instead of having sex? If so, that could also be an option sometimes. Some of the time when people want sex, what they're really looking for is intimacy, so just being close, holding each other and whispering sweet nothings might do the trick.