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  • by: sickandtired - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    In the first email that I actually read, he threatened to burn my photo albums he stole from me when I made him move out. He has EVERY photo album from my childhood, college years, trips with my deceased parents, all of them, and he's been cruelly holding them hostage for money that I refused to pay. He even implied that he would still be willing to ship them to me if I paid him now. He seems to be getting more and more enraged that I am ignoring him and not responding to his manifesto. After 9 years of...
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  • by: 1Melody1 - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    What a terrible thing to have to deal with so many years after. You should not have to live with this stress. I have an ex boyfriend from 30 YEARS AGO who still tries to track me down to this day. I've read narcissists often return to previous sources of supply, either to try and get more or to punish all over again. You are so right to protect yourself. Wishing you well and hoping he moves on quickly from this. 
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  • by: sickandtired - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    I didn't read this email. I just counted the paragraphs. It was 87 paragraphs of pure delusional narcissistic rage. I'm saving it as evidence to give to the authorities. 
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  • by: Swedish coast - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    I'm so glad you now have support from a loving spouse. Take care.
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  • by: sickandtired - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    Yes it's very disturbing when I'm just living my happy life with my wonderful husband, and I get blindsided like this, with him telling me my own father told him I was evil and not to be trusted. I suspect and hope that my father never said such things, but he had dementia in the last few years of his life, and he didn't appreciate me taking over his finances after Daddy was scammed by multiple convicted felons. I have ptsd from my ex boyfriend's behaviors which I won't go into deeply here, but my previous...
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  • by: Swedish coast - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    That logic of his is truly sickening. I too have heard the most outrageous tirades when RSD has peaked during divorce. I don't know what to make of it, it's too crazy. Since nobody else witnessed it, sometimes I felt like I was losing my mind.  Im sorry about this. You don't mention your feelings, but to me it would be very stressful to be contacted in that way. I feel for you.
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  • by: CANTGOBACK (not verified) - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    As you didn't initially indicate what you were seeking, I thought I'd ask.  What a pain, and what a toxic guy.  Good luck.
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  • by: sickandtired - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    He created a new email address that is very similar to a mutual friend and I thought the email was from the mutual friend. This friend and I share a love of music and I thought it was her, until I read the text of the email. Trust me, I am SICK of his "drama". I was just looking for some support from forum members who are familiar with my situation. 
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  • by: CANTGOBACK (not verified) - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    If you can't block him, why not just delete without reading and spare yourself the drama?  Does it even matter what he has to say?
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  • by: I-have-adhd - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    So I haven't followed up, life has been hectic.   (Whos isn't) Weve had some ups and downs over the year, all of the downs seeming to be surrounded around holidays/etc where gifts are given.    Her birthdays tomorrow, and this year I saved up for an $800 tiffanys knecklace and got her some coffee cups from the college she graduated from (she said she wanted some when we visited a few months back).  Being as how her birthday is on Tuesday and we work I thought I'd try to plan a getaway for us and the...
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  • by: I-have-adhd - 5 months 4 weeks ago
    She blaims everything on me.  I can literally see her getting stressed from work and other things, and know it's coming, no matter what I try to do to console, there's no consoling and it turns into me doing something wrong so we can fight and her feel better.  This whole weekend has been nothing but a fight from something that happened Friday, where I was supposed to pick up something for dinner that a coworker friend of hers made and I said I'd get it by the end of the day, and she went ahead and got it...
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  • by: I-have-adhd - 5 months 3 weeks ago
      As someone with EXTREME adhd and someone that has been cheated on by numerous previous partners, GET OUT NOW please. He doesn't sound like someone with issues that are caused by ADHD, respectfully meant he just sounds like a complete jerk.  If he cared for you, he'd quit drinking if that was causing him to cheat on you. But it's not the drinking... It's him. He's going to keep doing it, and keep acting appalled and keep giving excuses as long as you put up with it.  Please realize your worth... And you...
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